Thank you God for not placing expectations on me.
Thank you for dying on the cross so that I would no longer have to live under the law of this world, but rather under the law of grace.
Thank you for allowing me a life where I can live in full expectancy of seeing new mercies every morning.
Open my eyes to the expectations that I place on others that surpass reason; where the ideal exceeds reality.
Show me how I am placing unreasonable and selfish expectations on my loved ones to satisfy any void that only you can fill.
When I seek affirmation, remind me that it is only you O’ God that upholds and affirms me.
- My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me (Psalm 63:8).
- Though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds the righteous (Psalm 37:17).
- In my integrity you uphold me and set me in your presence forever (Psalm 41:12).
- The Lord upholds all those who fall and lifts up all who are bowed down (Psalm 145:14).
When I seek happiness, remind me that it is the joy of your name that strengthens me.
- Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10).
- The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song (Psalm 28:7).
- When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul (Psalm 94:19).
- Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls (1 Peter 1:8-9).
- May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as your trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit (Romans 15:13).
When I seek approval, remind me that it is only for you that I live, that you O’ God may be praised and I unnoticed.
- For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain (Philippians 1:21).
- For in Him we live and move and have our being (Acts 17:28).
When I seek fulfillment, remind me that you are the God who fills all things in every way.
- …the fullness of him who fills everything in every way (Ephesians 1:23).
- I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God (Ephesians 3:17-19).
- It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ (Ephesians 4:11-13).
- For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness in Christ, who is the head over every power and authority (Colossians 2:9-10).
Bless me with unmeasurable grace towards others, that I might not place unrealistic expectations on them, but extend the same love and grace that you have shown me.
May my contentment come entirely from your promises and truths, O’ God.
Help me recognize the plank in my own eye before addressing the speck in another’s eye (Matthew 7:3).
Give me grace to live in expectancy rather than expectation; to respond to others in love rather than place responsibility on them, that we may not be taken captive by hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human traditions and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ (Colossians 2:8).
May I be a vessel of love and grace rather than expectations and responsibilities.
May it be so – Amen.